The Haves and the Have-Nots

“For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?”  We live in a world obsessed with having. We measure success […]

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“For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?” 

We live in a world obsessed with having. We measure success by what we own, what we earn, where we live, what we drive, and the influence we wield. Then there are the “have-nots,” who struggle financially, live with limited resources, and often wonder when their circumstances will change.

Yet there is an interesting tension in the Christian life: some people have riches but do not have Christ, while others have Christ but very little riches. Some have both. And some seem to have neither.

So perhaps the deeper question is not, “What do you have?” but “What does it mean to have truly?”

Having Is More Than Possessing

Jesus asks, “What shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?” (Mark 8:36). Jesus was not condemning possessions. He was exposing the danger of gaining everything outwardly while losing something inwardly.

The rich young ruler had morality, religion, possessions, and status. Yet when Jesus asked him to surrender what stood between him and complete devotion, he walked away sorrowfully (Matthew 19:16–22).

He had much, but his possessions had him.

That distinction matters. Wealth itself is not evil. Scripture contains faithful people who possessed considerable resources, including Abraham, Job, Lydia, and Joseph of Arimathea. The issue is not simply what we have, but what has our heart.

Money can be a blessing when it becomes a tool for service. It becomes dangerous when it becomes our identity, security, or God.

Poverty Does Not Automatically Equal Righteousness

We must also resist romanticizing poverty.

Being poor does not automatically make someone humble or holy, just as being wealthy does not automatically make someone selfish or wicked. Poverty can produce compassion and resilience, but it can also produce frustration and despair. Wealth can produce generosity and opportunity, but it can also produce pride and indifference.

The biblical question is therefore not simply whether we have much or little.

It is what we do with what we have.

Psalm 24:1 reminds us, “The earth is the Lord’s, and the fulness thereof.” Everything we possess is ultimately entrusted to us. Stewardship changes the question from “What do I own?” to “What has God entrusted to me?”

Having Christ When You Have Little

Paul captures the Christian paradox beautifully: “As having nothing, and yet possessing all things” (2 Corinthians 6:10).

The world may look at someone with little money and conclude that they have little to offer. But in Christ, some riches cannot be measured by a bank account: grace, forgiveness, peace, hope, purpose, and eternal life.

Yet saying “Christ is enough” should never become an excuse to ignore practical needs.

James reminds us that if someone lacks food and clothing, simply telling them to “go in peace” without helping them is empty faith (James 2:15–16).

Christianity does not force us to choose between spiritual compassion and practical compassion.

We are called to have both.

If we have food, we can share it. If we have resources, we can help. If we have knowledge, we can teach. If we have influence, we can open doors. If we have time, we can show up.

You may not have much money, but you still have something.

The Danger of Having Without Giving

Jesus’ parable of the rich fool in Luke 12 reveals another danger: having much without knowing what it is for.

The man’s barns were full, but his vision was empty. His language centered on my crops, my barns, my goods, my soul. He had accumulated wealth but had forgotten eternity.

His problem was not that he had much.

His problem was that what he had served no greater purpose.

Materialism asks, “How much can I get?”

Stewardship asks, “How much good can God do through what I have?”

That question applies to everyone, not just the wealthy.

You may have money, but you may also have wisdom. You may have education, relationships, skills, experience, a home, encouragement, or simply the ability to listen.

Sometimes the richest person in the room is not the one with the most money, but the one who has learned how to give what they have.

Who Are the Real Haves?

Perhaps we have been measuring wealth incorrectly.

The real “haves” are not simply those with money. They are those who can possess things without allowing things to possess them.

They can have wealth without worshiping it, influence without being consumed by it, success without being defined by it, and comfort without becoming indifferent to those who struggle.

Conversely, a person can have millions and have no peace. They can have a beautiful house and have no home. They can have thousands of followers and have no genuine friend. They can have education without wisdom, influence without character, and possessions without purpose.

They can have everything and still have nothing.

The Greatest Possession

Perhaps the question we should ask at the end of life is not, “How much did I have?” but “What did what I had become?”

Did my money become a means of blessing?

Did my education become a means of service?

Did my influence lift others?

Did my home become a place of hospitality?

Did my success create opportunities for someone else?

And above all: Did I have Christ?

Jesus never promised that every believer would become materially wealthy. Neither did He teach that poverty is automatically holy. He taught us to put the kingdom first.

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness.” — Matthew 6:33

When the kingdom comes first, money finds its proper place. Possessions find their purpose. Success finds perspective. And even hardship can be endured with hope.

So perhaps the question is not whether you are one of the haves or the have-nots.

Perhaps the better question is:

What do you have—and does what you own, own you?

Because we can spend our entire lives trying to have more, only to discover that the greatest thing we could ever have was never something money could buy.

The greatest possession is Christ Himself.

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